Do you ever wonder why you just aren’t getting the ‘stuff’ you are wishing for? You wish and wish and nothing changes? Well, there is something you may not be aware that you are doing and it is keeping what you want just out of your reach, in fact you may be strengthening your hold on what you don’t want. With a simple shift in perspective, you can turn this around.
Here is the thing…
Most people don’t realize that simply wishing for something is built on a belief of lack.
Your wish: “I really want a new red sports car.
What you think about, talk to your friends about over and over is:
- “I really want a new red sports car because the car I have is old, it’s falling apart, it is miled out, I am embarrassed to be seen in it, I am worried to drive it any distance because it doesn’t feel safe anymore
- The tires are bald, they won’t last another winter, I am not sure where I will get the money to buy a new set of tires, my gear shift sticks… I hate this old car, I really wish I had a new one, but I don’t.
- I can’t afford it. I have been living in my overdraft for years, I haven’t been able to save any money.
- Everything is so expensive these days, the price of gas really hurts. I just don’t know what I am going to do.
- I wish I could win the lottery and buy a new car, but I’ll never win it, someone else always does, I never win anything big. The only things I win are free coffees… big deal.”
- I’ll probably end up driving this old beater for the rest of my life.
You think you are asking for a new red sports car, but your focus is actually like asking for more of the old one…
The Law of Attraction states that you get what you focus on whether you want it or not.
Are you starting to see what I mean?
You need to make sure your focus lines up with what you want… take you focus off what you don’t want (the crappy car)… stop thinking about it and talking about it… put your focus on what you do want (the yummy new red one)… think about and talk about that….
That’s the real secret.
Have a groovy day…
Joyce
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